What are the aspects of solid inner-game?
- Frame control
- “I am the prize”
- Abundance mentality
- Outcome independence
- Position of strength/lack of pedestal
- Charisma/Calibrated social dominance
What do all of these translate to?
How do you develop true self-respect?
Build yourself up, read worthwhile books, work on your physical fitness, overcome personal challenges, actively expand your comfort zone, and get your finances straight.
External Opinions Should Have No Effect On
Your Sense Of Self-Worth
Getting shot down a million times means nothing. Every “failure” is a lesson to be learned. You need those frames of reference. As you become more experienced, you will remember those moments of pain and (hopefully) aim to avoid making the same mistake twice.
A woman who turns you down does you a favor by letting you know she’s a waste of time.
“Failing” leaves you right where you started.
You Have Nothing To Lose
Solid inner-game lays the foundation for solid outer-game. Knowing is half the battle.
Having a strong mental base protects you from getting tooled. However, at some point you must take action and put your knowledge to the test. Learn to calibrate and develop your own approach.
There are many different styles. Find your niche.
P.S. Enjoy this post? Read “ON! For Him“.
It contains my best game essays, organized for your convenience.