I’d like to tell you a story. For a long time, I was entirely too reactive to how other people perceived me. I valued damn near everyone’s opinion above my own.
My frame/ego was weak.
I wanted people to like me. I lived in fear of what other people could be thinking about me.It was a negative confirmation bias where every single failure or misstep validated my low self esteem. My mind magnified negative opinions and ignored the positive ones. [Read more…]