11 Playboy Traits All Legendary Bon Vivants Share

What is a playboy?

A playboy lives the lifestyle of a bon vivant – a man of leisure who appreciates the finer pleasures of the world.

Even though he is the kind of man many want to be, only few know what it takes to live the lifestyle.

What do they all have in common?

I analyzed the lives of these legends:

Hugh Hefner
Dan Bilzerian
Anwar Zayden
James Goldstein
Silvio Berlusconi
Porfirio Rubirosa
Richard Branson

And I found 11 playboy traits they all share.

Table of Contents

1. They Think Big

If you think small, your life will also be small.

Your only real limit is the scope of your thinking.

Playboys live larger than most because they think bigger than most.

They think of life outside of “wagie world“.

2. They Are Nonchalant

A playboy carries himself with “amused mastery“.

He has seen it all and done it all.

Nothing phases him.

3. They Don’t Accept “Average”

A playboy’s overwhelming desire to experience life makes it impossible for him to accept average.

Average = low entropy.

Their abilities and perspective allow them to command the higher branches.

4. They Have Unfair Positioning

Playboys attract more with less.

They understand that superior positioning allows the best opportunities to come to them.

Instead of wasting their energy chasing things, they invest in a powerful and attractive setup.

This has everyone they want to meet wanting to come to them and paying for the privilege of doing it.

James Goldstein has the “Sheats-Goldstein Residence”
Ari Onassis had his yacht “The Christina O”
Hugh Hefner had his Playboy Mansion
Dan Bilzerian has his Bel-Air mansion
Richard Branson has Necker island

5. They Have A Strong Purpose + Vision

A playboy life is not handed to you.

It is constructed out of your own vision for yourself.

However, if there is no conviction / purpose behind it, you get sucked back into the matrix.

6. They Are 100% In Love With Themselves

Self-love is the engine that runs everything.

When you love yourself unconditionally, you only surround yourself with what you love.

7. They Live Eclectic Lives With Multiple Interests

Have you ever met a boring playboy?

Nope.

They go deep on the themes that interest them.

This overflowing passion is what makes them attractive to others.

(And as a side effect, causes them to develop extreme amounts of swag).

8. They Have Time + Location + Financial Freedom

Every single legendary playboy owns cash flowing assets.

This is what allows them to have time + location + financial freedom.

(The key ingredient that gives them the ability to sculpt the exact life of their dreams).

9. There Is No Separation Between Work And Play

A playboy uses his business in perfect harmony with his life.

A business should only be used as a vehicle to optimize your lifestyle.

If your business is not giving you access to greater opportunities, you’re working in the wrong one.

10. They Created + Designed Their Own Character + Lifestyle

Legendary playboys don’t accept the script + identity that was handed to them.

They designed their own.

They understand that personal narrative + self-image is the controller of destiny.

This is what allows them to do what others can’t.

11. They Give Themselves Permission To Enjoy Life And Have Fun

Being a playboy is ultimately about having fun.

They go into every situation with a frame of self-amusement.

They see the world like a kid in a candy shop.

Conclusion

Playboys share these 11 traits which allow them to live life to the fullest:

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