The labels people assign to you are a reflection of their own emotional needs / ways of understanding the world. Take a moment to squint through the semantic fog. Words put a spin on a situation and don’t necessarily reflect reality. (Some people label assertive men as “douchebags” simply because they aren’t easy to control …
What does it take to start developing inner strength? You have to cultivate the rhythm of your core. Energy exchanges itself between the inner and the outer. This All Goes Back To Understanding The Ego The ego is only an idea. The self is much deeper and limitless. The ego is about as small as …
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Inspiration is the result of the timeless communicating to the timebound. Eternity is in love with creations of time. -Steven Pressfield What’s “The War of Art“? It’s a book about winning your creative battles and conquering procrastination. It spoke to me because I frequently have to deal with “resistance” both internal and external while working …
Too many people carry themselves through life as victims. “Victims” want their struggle to be acknowledged by others. They want to feel like special snowflakes for having to endure an unforgiving reality. Regardless What Your Life Is Like, There’s Always Someone Worse Off Than You
Another friend of mine just passed away. This was not the outcome of one-itis gone wrong… Sometimes death creeps up on us in unpredictable ways. The last time I saw him was a few months ago. He was so vibrant and full of positive energy. I would have never expected that a rare blood illness …
How to develop boundaries? Possessing a solid frame is about understanding your limits. However, the mainstream narrative often tells you to disregard violations. Can’t we all just get along? Can’t we just disregard each others’ bad behavior? Everyone must be treated equally regardless of how they treat you! Everyone’s emotional needs must be met! If …
You can only end up in a girl’s frame if you’re afraid to lose her. As soon as you see a girl as non-replaceable, you start making excuses for her bad behavior. You try to demonstrate your unconditional love by rewarding her with your attention when it isn’t deserved. You start looking to her for …
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In your journey towards reaching your full potential, you’ll develop an acute awareness of social dynamics. Manginas and losers will stick out like sore thumbs. Some men will be peaceful and inspiring, others will be back-stabbing and conniving. However, possessing the ability to recognize attacks on your cred doesn’t mean you should mindlessly react.
How do you establish the right dynamic when flirting with girls? Think about it this way… Are you a sexual beast who goes after what he wants or an asexual lump who masturbates with his tears of lost opportunities? The Frame You Set In The Beginning Is The One That’s Easier To Maintain Starting off …
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How can you develop a cool and ENGAGING demeanor? A major ingredient in a winning attitude is a general aloofness towards other people. However, this aloofness needs to be combined with a strong presence in order to be effective. The “too-cool-for-school” guy sitting alone at the bar not talking to anyone is definitely NOT getting …
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