The fact that you are always a bit repetitive shows that you have understood the game and it shows that the game has its unchangeable rules. The game repeats itself 24/7 because it is unchangeable.

“I don’t understand why people insist on chasing those who are running away from them”. The human conscious mind seems to like the vision that currently unavailable things/persons COULD be available at a later time. On the one hand, regarding things, it’s positive, because it motivates people to bring out the best in them, on the other hand, regarding people, it poisons them because, as you said, chasing someone ALWAYS lowers your value and is like pissing in the wind.

Generally speaking, all of us are just looking for the next endorphin rush. Some eat chocolate to feel good, some listen to music to feel good, some drink alcohol to feel good. These are everyday life things that make people feel good. Strictly speaking, low value-clowns chase women they can’t get because they want that BIG endorphin rush (finally getting the woman) after all that self-inflicted emotional pain. What they don’t consider is that this endorphin rush would be short-lived, just like the endorphin rush when you buy a nice luxury watch. Yeah, you’re happy but sooner or later, you want something new again.

If you have a focus on the processes in the human brain, you will learn that emotions are hella dangerous. You know what happens when a guy falls in love? That elevated mood he has in that moment makes him accept the idea of a monogamous relationship and of settling down to family life. I don’t say that this is bad. I just say that this is the cause of one-itis. One-itis, the illness that makes guys forget that there are approximately 3.5 billion other women living on this planet.

The low value brain goes mad when the reward is missing. Clingy low value guys start to become passionate, the more their “goddess” rejects them. Their failings motivate them, so they keep trying and trying because dopamine (the chemical that spurs us to work to get what we think will make us feel good) makes them think they can get her some day despite the setback. As long as they don’t understand the game, as long as they don’t got that “Don’t Chase Them. Replace Them.” – mentality, they will suffer.

As I already mentioned, chasing things (cars, success, money) is positive, because it motivates people to bring out the best in them. The first $1 Million is the hardest. Most people want to save money but they are not ready to give up consumption. The rich spend money to make money, and the poor spend money on things that they want now! Period.