“The more you seek esteem, the less you obtain it, for it depends on the opinion of others.” -Balthasar Gracian The number one thing most people lack in their lives is a healthy amount of self-worth. Hedonistic outlets such as: Drugs Women Alcohol, etc serve as a temporary mask to cover up this gaping hole. …
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Life is simple. It’s the noise that makes it heavy. People try to push their rules on you. They test your frame. They try to pull you into their script. Most fold under that pressure. They don’t have the reps. They don’t have the reference points. They don’t have the lived proof that their energy …
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What’s the truth about social reality? Different people perceive you as dominant in different situations because charisma is contextual. Much of this has to do with Your environment The men surrounding you And the type of woman sizing you up. A guy who’s the leader of a bunch of nerds will likely appear weak among …
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Frame control is one of the most important things you can learn. You don’t need to assert your frame 100% of the time as long as you have a general understanding of the concept. If another person has a better idea than you, it’s ok to back down. There’s a difference between holding your ground …
A large part of life is the ability to convey your value to other people. Even if you have supposed high value, acting like a little bitch will get you no where. There are millionaires who are “winners” on paper, yet are unable to get their wives to fuck them because they don’t know how …
What are the aspects of solid inner-game? Unreactive Frame control “I am the prize” Abundance mindset Confidence Outcome independence Position of strength/lack of pedestal Charisma/Calibrated social dominance What do all of these translate to? Self-Respect.
How to earn respect from others? Throughout our lives we’re conditioned to give away our respect for free. However, when a resource becomes abundant, it loses its value. Our culture tries to value everything equally. Weak-minded fat people are praised as if they’re disciplined body-builders.
Guys have problems getting women when they don’t know how to relate to them. An inexperienced man will try talking to a woman like he would to a male friend. He’ll talk about Goals Interests Small-talk, etc. While these topics are great for building comfort, they do nothing to create the ever important vagina tingle. …
“Haters will see you walk on water and say it’s because you can’t swim.” -Anon How to deal with negative people? In case you haven’t noticed, you won’t get along with everyone in this world. No matter how positive your attitude or amount of love you express, people will hate. Maybe you remind them of …
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