Comments on: Flirting With Girls: How To Establish The Right Dynamic https://misterinfinite.com/flirting-with-girls-how-to-establish-the-right-dynamic/ Welcome To The Lifestyle Tue, 16 Dec 2025 19:51:46 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: How To Flip the Script - Mister Infinite https://misterinfinite.com/flirting-with-girls-how-to-establish-the-right-dynamic/#comment-7455 Wed, 10 Dec 2014 00:03:53 +0000 http://misterinfinite.com/?p=1957#comment-7455 […] set the correct frame is to put your own dick on a pedestal. When you think of yourself as the prize, you naturally flip […]

]]> By: mister_infinite https://misterinfinite.com/flirting-with-girls-how-to-establish-the-right-dynamic/#comment-3553 Sun, 08 Jun 2014 03:51:00 +0000 http://misterinfinite.com/?p=1957#comment-3553 It’s THE ATTITUDE regardless if it is induced by alcohol or not. When you build your inner-game, the fear goes away.

]]> By: Relating from Man to Woman - Mister Infinite https://misterinfinite.com/flirting-with-girls-how-to-establish-the-right-dynamic/#comment-2410 Tue, 08 Apr 2014 09:00:33 +0000 http://misterinfinite.com/?p=1957#comment-2410 […] your job as a man to set the frame and lead the conversation. Talk about whatever the fuck you want to. Focus on the emotional content […]

]]> By: The Tingle Trumps All - mister infinite https://misterinfinite.com/flirting-with-girls-how-to-establish-the-right-dynamic/#comment-1686 Mon, 17 Mar 2014 06:58:24 +0000 http://misterinfinite.com/?p=1957#comment-1686 […] By treating her vagina as valuable, you are only making it harder for yourself because she will fall into that frame. If a woman pulled this shit on a man of value, he would laugh in her face and be on to the next. […]

]]> By: Nick https://misterinfinite.com/flirting-with-girls-how-to-establish-the-right-dynamic/#comment-274 Tue, 25 Jun 2013 05:32:35 +0000 http://misterinfinite.com/?p=1957#comment-274 I’d like you to do a post on the topic of booze. See, here’s the deal:
When I’m sober, I’m waaaaay too much in my own head. I constantly second-guess myself and I walk around with a hungry look in my eyes, thinking, “I’d fuck her,” or “I wouldn’t fuck her,” etc. I feel socially awkward, at least from an internal perspective (maybe “socially awkward” is the wrong phrase, but I’m certainly quiet and have trouble finding the right words to say, connecting with others, etc.). I have no idea if others can sense this off me… It’s rare for me to have a successful flirty interaction with a girl while I’m sober anymore–it’s like they want to play this coy/bitchy game. [Just to keep things in perspective, I’m not some autistic retard. I’m handsome, intelligent, etc., though a bit on the short side at 5’8″. I have had lots of girlfriends and flings in the past, including a model, but the idea of the cold approach absolutely mortifies me].

Now, throw about 4+ pints in me (one night I drank 12 pints of stout and was still smooth as a motherfucker) and I suddenly BECOME ALIVE. I can woo damn near any girl. I don’t give a fuck about the consequences of anything. I’ll say anything, do anything, all with a “who gives a fuck?” attitude and the girls EAT IT UP. Random makeouts at clubs. Rawdogging in the toilets at pubs. Hot, rich bitches who I usually think are way out of my league will tell me that they’re SCARED about how attracted they are to me. One girl recently “accidentally” told me she loved me the third or fourth time we fucked–I’ve known her for about 2 weeks.

How do I reconcile the discrepancy? Clearly the potential is down there SOMEWHERE, but I’m tired of relying on booze as a crutch. I’m also reluctant to keep it up because if I do, I’ll probably become an alcoholic. Still, it mystifies me. The difference is literally between night and day. Are all these girls actually attracted to me in the sober daytime, and I’m just too much in my own head to notice, or does my assume-the-sale, no-fucks-given mentality when I’m drunk woo them in?

Interestingly, once I’ve pulled bitches drunk, I can usually keep them in rotation when I’m sober (regular hangouts without booze, etc., some of which turn into 8 and 12 month mini-relationships).

Let me know what you think. If I could be even HALF as smooth sober as I am while drunk, I’d never spend another night alone again (unless I wanted to).

P.S. – Just for a frame of reference, my notch count is 19. It’s not like I’m doing BAD with chicks–I just want to do better.

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