Stop Going On Boring Dates – Master The Art Of Addictive Attraction Instead

If you ever find yourself in the “job interview” style of dating, let me be clear – you’ve already fucked up BIG TIME.

You’re in the loser’s frame, begging for approval, hoping she stamps your “Boyfriend Candidate” application.

This isn’t just an L – it’s a catastrophic failure of game.

The minute a girl feels like she’s sitting across from a HR rep instead of a real MF, her attraction plummets.

Women don’t want to hear robotic Q&A sessions.

They want to FEEL something.

What’s Wrong with “Job Interview” Style Dating?

• It’s predictable. Same tired questions: “Where are you from? What do you do? What do you like to do for fun?” Yawn.
• It’s approval-seeking. You’re basically trying to “qualify” for the role of her next simp.
• It kills all tension. No mystery, no intrigue, no playfulness – just lifeless back-and-forth.
• It screams “I’m boring.” If the date feels like a LinkedIn networking event, she’s already planning her exit.

A lot of MF’s only “game” is listing their employer + college degree.

So how do you avoid this tragic fate?

Simple:

Stop playing by the rules society programmed into you.

Stop trying to “win” her over like a desperate salesman pitching a bad product.

Instead, create a game she actually WANTS to play.

One where she feels like she is on a roller-coaster.

How to Avoid the Job Interview Frame

The guys who pull the best women understand one thing:

It’s not about YOU – it’s about the GAME you create in the moment.

When a girl interacts with you, she should feel like she’s entered a different world, one filled with:

• Excitement
• Unpredictability
• And fun.

Here’s how you do it:

1. Talk About What’s Going On Around You

Instead of defaulting to the same boring questions, use the environment.

• “That couple over there is definitely on their first date. Look how awkward they are. We should make bets on how long they last.”
• “Bartender looks like he’s plotting a heist. Let’s give him a backstory.”
• “You’ve been staring at that girl across the bar. Are you two telepathically communicating?”

By engaging with the present moment, you’re showing her that you’re spontaneous and fun – a guy who makes everyday life entertaining.

2. Create Imaginary Storylines (Us vs. Them, Etc.)

Nothing bonds people faster than shared reality creation.

Get her involved in a playful storyline where you and her are on the same team against the world.

• “We’re spies, and everyone in this bar is secretly watching us. Play it cool.”
• “Okay, you’re my long-lost childhood friend, and we just ran into each other after 10 years apart. Improv time.”
• “See that group of guys over there? They look like a rock band that just broke up. Let’s name them.”

The result?

Instant chemistry.

She’s no longer just talking to you – she’s experiencing something with you.

That’s what creates real attraction.

3. Don’t Give Boring Answers – Troll Instead

If she asks you a generic question, respond in a way that forces her to engage.

• Her: “What do you do for work?”
  • You: “I’m a seal trainer.”
• Her: “Where are you from?”
  • You: “I was raised by a pack of wolves. It was a unique childhood.”
• Her: “What are you looking for?”
  • You: “Someone to help me pull off the ultimate heist – stealing the Declaration of Independence.”

By flipping the script, you create:

• Engagement
• Laughter
• And curiosity.

She’ll WANT to keep talking to you.

4. Talk About Her (Style, Culture, etc.)

Most guys give the same tired compliments.

• “You’re beautiful.”
• “Nice dress.”
• Blah blah blah.

Instead, make it fun:

• “Your outfit tells me you’re a “mysterious European heiress who’s secretly on the run from Interpol.” Am I close?”
• “You look like you were cast in a TV show about a rebellious artist. What’s your character’s backstory?”
• “You have a villainous energy. I could see you as the mastermind behind a great diamond heist.”

Instead of just noticing her, you’re making her:

• Think
• Engage
• And play along.

5. Be Unpredictable

Predictability kills attraction.

Keep her on her toes by switching up the energy.

• Midway through a conversation, suddenly say: “Wait… I just realized something. I think you might be a secret agent.” And then run with it.
• If she says something flirty, lean back, squint, and say, “Are you trying to seduce me right now?”

This keeps interactions fresh, exciting, and emotionally engaging.

6. Be Self-Amused

A man who has fun for his own sake is 10x more attractive than a guy trying to impress someone.

Your enjoyment is contagious.

If you have fun, she has fun.

The Truth About Attraction: People Get Addicted to the Game

The guys who pull the most (and best) women aren’t just “good looking” or “rich” – they’re the most fun to interact with.

Think about how people get addicted to TikTok or gambling.

Why?

Because the experience constantly serves up novelty, humor, and unexpected stimulation.

You have to be that for her in real life.

• If your “game” is predictable and dry, she’ll curve you fast.
• If your “game” is chaotic, exciting, and makes her feel something, she’ll keep coming back.

Attraction isn’t logical – it’s EMOTIONAL.

It’s about making her addicted to the game you create in the moment.

Final Thoughts

Forget “job interview” style dating.

That’s for normies and soycucks who don’t understand attraction.

Instead, make every interaction a mini-game that keeps her:

• Engaged
• Entertained
• And addicted to the dynamic you bring.

You’re not “qualifying” for her – she’s getting caught up in your world.

So next time you’re on a date:

• Ditch the resume
• Stop the lifeless small talk
• And start creating a GAME she actually WANTS to play.

If you master this?

She won’t just like you – she won’t be able to stop thinking about you.

P.S. Enjoy this post? Read “ON! For Him“.

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