“The more you seek esteem, the less you obtain it, for it depends on the opinion of others.” -Balthasar Gracian The number one thing most people lack in their lives is a healthy amount of self-worth. Hedonistic outlets such as: Drugs Women Alcohol, etc serve as a temporary mask to cover up this gaping hole. …
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In my early adulthood, one of my closest childhood friends took his own life after a long relationship ended. He had built his entire world around one woman. He changed schools for her. Planned his future around her. Bent his life to fit her needs. His identity revolved around the relationship. When it ended, his …
Affection is a commodity. The more abundant a commodity is, the more it loses its value. Low-value “love” is essentially infinite in its availability. Even though some losers are wising up to the reality of the sexual market, the vast majority of them still seem to embrace “reformed” trainwrecks with open arms. These women quickly …
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What is the secret to the reality of love? We’re conditioned to believe women love unconditionally. You need to accept that no girl will ever be able to love you like a mother can. Maternal love (hopefully) served its purpose during your childhood. Adults must be able to love themselves before they’re truly able to …
Can keeping a journal really change your life? I’ve been writing down my thoughts since 2010. Keeping a journal has allowed me to pick up on recurring patterns both in thoughts and choices. Desires Dreams Insecurities Motivations and limitations All stick out with greater clarity. Keeping A Journal Makes Your Thoughts More Observable It’s very …
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Everything in life is an amalgam of influences. Ideas build off of one another. Parts of reality are reflected throughout the whole. The greatest people throughout history understood this concept well. They blended their influences into seemingly original creations. (I use the word seemingly because nothing is ever 100% original).
Does Thinking Positive Really Make A Difference? It has in my life. If it can help me it can definitely help you. By the time you finish reading this post you’ll quickly be able to perceive positivity. This will: Increase your health Help you make better decision And attract higher quality friends So read on. …
Thinking Positive – What’s New And True About Mindset Read More »
I’d like to tell you a story. For a long time, I was entirely too reactive to how other people perceived me. I valued damn near everyone’s opinion above my own. My Frame/Ego Was Weak. I wanted people to like me. I lived in fear of what other people could be thinking about me. It …
