One of the most powerful mental models you can adopt is viewing yourself as the protagonist in a hero movie or a character in a video game, actively leveling up their attributes.
When you make this mindset shift, everything in your life transforms.
- Obstacles become challenges to overcome
- Failures turn into plot points that build character
- And every small victory is another step toward your ultimate goal.
Life as a Hero’s Journey
Every great hero story follows a similar pattern – the protagonist:
- Starts in an ordinary world
- Faces challenges
- Levels up their abilities
- And ultimately achieves greatness.
The same structure applies to your life.
The key is to genuinely assume that moments of failure are just “part of the plot.”
Think about it.
In any movie or video game, the hero never gets everything handed to them.
They:
- Face challenges
- Learn
- And grow stronger through adversity.
What makes a story compelling isn’t a protagonist who does nothing – it’s one who overcomes resistance and evolves into a higher version of themselves.
What if you viewed your day-to-day life as the montage scene before victory?
The moment in the movie where the character is:
- Training
- Grinding
- Making small but critical improvements that eventually lead to mastery.
Instead of seeing challenges as setbacks, you’d embrace them as necessary steps in the journey.
Shifting to the Third-Person Perspective
One of the most liberating shifts you can make is to start observing your thoughts and emotions from a third-person perspective – like watching a character in a game.
When you do this, you create distance between yourself and the emotional highs and lows of life.
Most people react emotionally to setbacks because they see them as personal failures rather than just part of the process.
But imagine playing a video game in first person and feeling every hit as if it were happening to you.
The game would become unbearable.
When you start playing in third person, everything changes – forever.
Instead of reacting impulsively to emotions, you can analyze them like an outside observer.
You don’t have to identify with:
You can simply recognize them as “temporary game mechanics” – factors to navigate but not obstacles that define you.
The Fear of Taking Action
Imagine playing a game and being too scared to swing your sword because you’re worried about how the NPCs might judge you.
It sounds absurd in that context, but that’s exactly how many people live their lives.
They hesitate to take action because they fear judgment from people who are barely relevant to their story.
A major key to success is realizing that most people are background characters in your journey.
They have their own minor roles, but they do not determine your trajectory.
The only thing that matters is your progression – your willingness to:
- Level up
- Take action
- And keep moving forward.
Progress Bars and Attribute Points
Every skill you develop can be visualized as a progress bar.
Just like in a video game, you start at Level 1 in any new skill.
Whether it’s:
- Business
- Fitness
- Social skills
- Or mindset mastery
you’re never instantly great at something.
You have to put in the reps.
But here’s the thing – progress isn’t always obvious.
In a game, you don’t see the progress bar filling up constantly.
Sometimes you have to keep going until, suddenly, you level up.
The same applies to real life.
You won’t always see the growth day to day, but consistency compounds.
If you treat skill-building like an RPG, you’ll start allocating “experience points” intentionally.
Instead of wasting time on distractions, you’ll invest in attributes that actually contribute to your story arc.
- Strength: Physical training, discipline, endurance
- Intelligence: Reading, learning, strategic thinking
- Charisma: Social skills, influence, leadership
- Wealth: Financial literacy, business acumen, investing
Every action you take is either adding experience points to an attribute or wasting time in side quests that don’t serve your long-term goal.
The Power of Gamification
When you gamify your mindset, everything becomes an opportunity to advance.
- Obstacles? They’re just “boss fights” designed to test your growth.
- Setbacks? Just temporary “respawns” – you learn from the mistake and re-enter the game stronger.
- Plateaus? You’ve reached the level cap in one area and need to acquire a new skill to progress.
By shifting your perception, you no longer fear failure.
You understand that it’s part of the game.
You embrace it.
You use it to propel yourself forward rather than letting it stop you.
Breaking Free From The NPC Mindset
They:
They exist within the game world but never take control of their own narrative.
They are NPCs – background players who follow pre-programmed societal expectations.
But you don’t have to live like that.
You can choose to be the main character.
- Main characters take action. They initiate, adapt, and evolve.
- Main characters make decisions based on their own vision. They aren’t controlled by what others think.
- Main characters embrace challenges. They know that pressure leads to greatness.
Playing the Game Like GTA
I will oftentimes just think about my body as being something I’m controlling in a GTA-style freeroam video game.
It makes doing it all easy – completely detached, just patiently upgrading character attributes.
When you played GTA, would you just sit in the crib and bullshit, or would you go out in the world, make waves, and upgrade your character?
Easy answer.
You Have to Go Video Game Mode
Zoom out and assess your character unbiasedly.
The actions you need to take to get the outcomes you want don’t care about how doing them makes you feel.
They only care about whether you gave them enough quality inputs.
Max your stats with XP.
Final Thoughts: Playing to Win
When you start thinking of yourself as the protagonist of your own hero’s journey, everything shifts.
You stop fearing:
- Judgment
- Setbacks
- And discomfort.
You start:
- Embracing challenges
- Leveling up your skills
- And taking deliberate actions that align with your ultimate goal.
The biggest mindset shift of all?
Understanding that the game never really “ends.”
There is no final boss, no finish line.
There’s only the next level – the next version of yourself that you are constantly evolving into.
So pick up your sword.
Step into the arena.
Play the game to win.
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