Game is “applied charisma”. This is the same skill required for effective salesmanship. When swooping women, your goal is to convey the worth of your “value” (Psychosocial dominance). This type of value is more abstract to measure than the goods most salesmen sell. However, the principles of salesmanship still apply. Your “value” is perceived to …
What does effective networking look like? In a world where everyone is trying to: “Pick your brain” “Hop on a call” Or leech value few know how to make high quality connections. Here’s a different way to think about it. It’s called “social threading”. The basic idea is the social “connector” acts as the facilitator …
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“Perfect friendship is for those who are alike in virtue.” -Aristotle What are the keys to a good friendship? It’s important to be independent and self-reliant. At the same time, healthy relationships are essential to overall well-being. Resources / energies flow through social connections. The people who you spend the most time with are a …
To reach your potential, you must learn to deal with the opinions of others. Social interaction is an arena of ideologies. Every single person has their own unique perspective on the world, and strives to assert it onto others to make it more valid. The opinions we possess emerge out of our experiences. In fact, …
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Do you care about being “alpha” or the best version of yourself? When you start adjusting your mindset, you may feel slighted when people don’t immediately recognize you as a “winner / leader”. However, all groups have their existing leaders. You can’t just come in as an outsider and expect to run shit right off …
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Self-sufficiency leads to self-respect. Self-respect leads to confidence. Handling shit entirely on your own forces you to look after yourself. It allows you to discover your value because you’re tested on a daily basis. This is why it’s best to have ZERO tolerance for bullshit and flakiness. If people don’t want to respect your time …
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Have you ever been around a “friendly” and “charismatic” person who only causes problems? Were you tempted to make excuses because of their likeable persona? Did their words never match up with their actions? If so, you’ve just identified a snake. Just because people are friendly doesn’t mean they’re your friends. The greatest enemies in …
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The labels people assign to you are a reflection of their own emotional needs / ways of understanding the world. Take a moment to squint through the semantic fog. Words put a spin on a situation and don’t necessarily reflect reality. (i.e. Women / pussies label winners as “douchebags” because they’re hard to control and …
How to develop boundaries? Possessing a solid frame is about understanding your limits. However, the mainstream narrative often tells you to disregard violations. Can’t we all just get along? Can’t we just disregard each others’ bad behavior? Everyone must be treated equally regardless of how they treat you! Everyone’s emotional needs must be met! If …
You can only end up in a girl’s frame if you’re afraid to lose her. As soon as you see a girl as non-replaceable, you start making excuses for her bad behavior. You try to demonstrate your unconditional love by rewarding her with your attention when it isn’t deserved. You start looking to her for …
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