To reach your potential, you must learn to deal with the opinions of others. Social interaction is an arena of ideologies. Every single person has their own unique perspective on the world, and strives to assert it onto others to make it more valid. The opinions we possess emerge out of our experiences. In fact, …
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Do you care about being “alpha” or the best version of yourself? When you start adjusting your mindset, you may feel slighted when people don’t immediately recognize you as a “winner / leader”. However, all groups have their existing leaders. You can’t just come in as an outsider and expect to run shit right off …
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Self-sufficiency leads to self-respect. Self-respect leads to confidence. Handling shit entirely on your own forces you to look after yourself. It allows you to discover your value because you’re tested on a daily basis. This is why it’s best to have ZERO tolerance for bullshit and flakiness. If people don’t want to respect your time …
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Have you ever been around a “friendly” and “charismatic” person who only causes problems? Were you tempted to make excuses because of their likeable persona? Did their words never match up with their actions? If so, you’ve just identified a snake. Just because people are friendly doesn’t mean they’re your friends. The greatest enemies in …
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The labels people assign to you are a reflection of their own emotional needs / ways of understanding the world. Take a moment to squint through the semantic fog. Words put a spin on a situation and don’t necessarily reflect reality. (Some people label assertive men as “douchebags” simply because they aren’t easy to control …
How to develop boundaries? Possessing a solid frame is about understanding your limits. However, the mainstream narrative often tells you to disregard violations. Can’t we all just get along? Can’t we just disregard each others’ bad behavior? Everyone must be treated equally regardless of how they treat you! Everyone’s emotional needs must be met! If …
You can only end up in a girl’s frame if you’re afraid to lose her. As soon as you see a girl as non-replaceable, you start making excuses for her bad behavior. You try to demonstrate your unconditional love by rewarding her with your attention when it isn’t deserved. You start looking to her for …
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In your journey towards reaching your full potential, you’ll develop an acute awareness of social dynamics. Manginas and losers will stick out like sore thumbs. Some men will be peaceful and inspiring, others will be back-stabbing and conniving. However, possessing the ability to recognize attacks on your cred doesn’t mean you should mindlessly react.
How can you develop a cool and ENGAGING demeanor? A major ingredient in a winning attitude is a general aloofness towards other people. However, this aloofness needs to be combined with a strong presence in order to be effective. The “too-cool-for-school” guy sitting alone at the bar not talking to anyone is definitely NOT getting …
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“The more you seek esteem, the less you obtain it, for it depends on the opinion of others.” -Balthasar Gracian The number one thing most people lack in their lives is a healthy amount of self-worth. Hedonistic outlets such as: Drugs Women Alcohol, etc serve as a temporary mask to cover up this gaping hole. …
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