In your journey towards reaching your full potential, you’ll develop an acute awareness of social dynamics. Manginas and losers will stick out like sore thumbs. Some men will be peaceful and inspiring, others will be back-stabbing and conniving. However, possessing the ability to recognize attacks on your cred doesn’t mean you should mindlessly react.
How can you develop a cool and ENGAGING demeanor? A major ingredient in a winning attitude is a general aloofness towards other people. However, this aloofness needs to be combined with a strong presence in order to be effective. The “too-cool-for-school” guy sitting alone at the bar not talking to anyone is definitely NOT getting …
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“The more you seek esteem, the less you obtain it, for it depends on the opinion of others.” -Balthasar Gracian The number one thing most people lack in their lives is a healthy amount of self-worth. Hedonistic outlets such as: Drugs Women Alcohol, etc serve as a temporary mask to cover up this gaping hole. …
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Life is simple. It’s all this external bullshit that gets us down. Pressure to follow the social script People trying to challenge your frame in petty ways Etc. Not everyone has the ability to tune that noise out. Most people are unable to summon the balls necessary to maintain a high-value frame. Unless you have …
What’s the truth about social reality? Different people perceive you as dominant in different situations because charisma is contextual. Much of this has to do with Your environment The men surrounding you And the type of woman sizing you up. A guy who’s the leader of a bunch of nerds will likely appear weak among …
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Frame control is one of the most important things you can learn. You don’t need to assert your frame 100% of the time as long as you have a general understanding of the concept. If another person has a better idea than you, it’s ok to back down. There’s a difference between holding your ground …
A large part of life is the ability to convey your value to other people. Even if you have supposed high value, acting like a little bitch will get you no where. There are millionaires who are “winners” on paper, yet are unable to get their wives to fuck them because they don’t know how …
What are the aspects of solid inner-game? Unreactive Frame control “I am the prize” Abundance mindset Confidence Outcome independence Position of strength/lack of pedestal Charisma/Calibrated social dominance What do all of these translate to? Self-Respect.
What Does It Mean To “Be An Asshole”? Winners are often labeled as “assholes” for neutral behavior. I didn’t laugh at your lame-ass joke? I didn’t respond to your annoying and cringe-worthy text? Yeah, I must be such an asshole right? There Are Different Ways Of Going About Being An “Asshole”
How to earn respect from others? Throughout our lives we’re conditioned to give away our respect for free. However, when a resource becomes abundant, it loses its value. Our culture tries to value everything equally. Weak-minded fat people are praised as if they’re disciplined body-builders.
